Episode 02: Manifesting Financial Safety
Manifesting Financial Safety: A Guide for Complex Trauma Survivors
In this crucial episode, we delve into the unique challenges that complex trauma survivors face when attempting to manifest financial safety.
The host discusses how deeply ingrained beliefs from toxic family dynamics can hinder financial self-care and offers practical solutions, such as connecting with an inner mother figure and working through subconscious fears. Learn how to navigate these hurdles, raise your vibration, and create a safe space for financial independence.
00:00 Introduction to Financial Safety for Trauma Survivors
00:23 Understanding the Impact of Complex Trauma
01:05 The Role of Subconscious Beliefs
01:36 Manifestation Challenges and Electromagnetic Beings
02:18 Gratitude and Vibration in Manifestation
02:39 Hidden Subconscious Barriers
03:05 Creating an Inner Mother Figure
03:18 Visualization and Emotional Processing
05:48 Rewriting Beliefs and Inner Safety
06:32 Somatic Work and Self-Acceptance
06:59 Empowerment and Conclusion
Your life is a reflection of what you believe you are worthy of.
After going through experiences where you didn’t get what you want…
You might have picked up the idea that you don’t deserve your desires.
You don’t deserve good things. You don’t deserve life to work out for you.
From this standpoint, it’s easy to go into proving mode…
To go out of your way over and over again to prove how valuable you are. You’re always on edge. You are always observing the feedback
You always feel like something is missing… there is something more you need to achieve or be.
You can’t relax. You can’t let go. You can’t receive.
But when you connect the dots - from safety, trust and shame to guilt, expansion and love...everything falls into place.
Manifesting has never been so safe, so easy and so expected.
Transcript
Hi, and welcome back episode two, one of the most important episodes I'm going to be recording for you because manifesting for complex trauma survivors Has one big big boo boo and that one is financial safety and I think for me It's just been the longest journey because with A complex trauma background.
We can't manifest like other people and using a lot of different types of affirmations, it doesn't really help because unconsciously or in your subconscious, it actually doesn't feel safe to take care of yourself financially. Because when we are complex trauma survivors, then most of the time we were in this.
Um, toxic dysfunctional family dynamic where this was basically indoctrinated that it's not safe to take care of yourself. You need to be dependent on me, us, um, financial safety is nothing to be You know, handed over to you. Um, I am responsible. You are irresponsible. Um, all these forms of manipulation that are so deeply ingrained that even on a cognitive level, consciously, you know, that it would be the most amazing freeing thing in the world to feel safe, to take care of, or, or to just take care of yourself financially and to, you know, you always be thinking of other people as well and have philanthropic.
Um, avenues where you are helping other people and just all the ways that you can fulfill desires for yourself. And this is the crux that you might create all these ways like vision boards or affirmations, um, That are showing you your desires and then you get frustrated because you're like, I'm doing all the things, but if you don't feel safe to take care of yourself, and this might be in multiple different areas, but to take care of yourself financially, these things are going to have a real hard time to get to you because we are actually designed with electromagnetic.
Beings, which means we designed to receive at all times to give and receive. Um, so even if we are writing, um, these gratitude journals, which are designed to raise our vibration. So gratitude journal, or just being grateful or starting your day with gratitude or, or ending your day with gratitude is really about raising your vibration.
That's why it works well within, in the manifestation world, but as a complex trauma survivor, you've got other things to kind of work through before. You can raise your vibration to such a level that it actually stays there. There are just so many dips because what I've realized as a complex trauma survivor is that there are so many hidden things we aren't aware of.
They are just in the subconscious. They not there. They are not to be seen. Um, that's where a lot of, uh, help comes in with, um, SRT healings, for example, where hidden things can just be cleared without you having to re experience them and go through re traumatization process. What really helps is creating an inner mother figure.
I've done this for multiple years now, where you are visually creating. Connecting to an inner mother figure. This actually really takes time. So be gentle with yourself and an exercise you can do is really focus on this inner mother figure and allow her to visually hand over the situation to you. So, you know, you might be desiring going on holiday, but you are in a relationship maybe where you feel safer to be taken care of, um, financially.
So it's not always. You know, up to you and you have to, well, we always have to kind of compromise, but maybe you envision going there and, and spoiling your spouse or your, or your children or your friends or whatever it might be, and you know that you don't have the funds for it. But at the end of the day, if we look back at taking care of yourself financially, we want to look at.
Your inner mother handing you over a situation. So any situation you feel like is too much for you, you can't handle is something that your inner mother would be handing over to you because at the end of the day, the belief is that if someone else is taking responsibility for this, then you're not to blame.
And one of the worst things that. You just don't want to feel is that self blame and that making mistakes. Cause it's like a black and white situation. It's actually terror at the end of the day. A lot of our fears are terror around terror. That's why a lot of complex trauma survey survivors have, um, Uh, anxiety disorders because of that terror of making a mistake.
So rather, so because it's an all or nothing scenario, it's, it's a, it's a win or lose, it's not a gray zone. It's a win or lose. Most of the things for us are win or lose. It's not a gray zone. So oftentimes just dropping into your heart space or speaking to the, uh, in a mother figure is a way of taking us out of that feeling of danger, because at the end of the day, you feeling terror.
Responsibility or self taking care of yourself financially actually feels like a danger to yourself. I don't know if you've ever thought about it that way. And I'm actually sitting with it now, but that's really crazy. Isn't it that taking care of yourself is a danger and you would be to blame and, and take all, you know, whatever happens, um, is all on you.
So if we were to. If something goes wrong, it's all on you. It's just safer for others to take over. And when we create that inner, that connection to that inner mother, it's a rewriting of that belief. It's a, it's a creating that inner safety to feel safe, to be handed over the situation and then looking at what are the beliefs or thoughts that come up.
So when you're in this visualization, you taking a moment and you are connecting to that inner mother. Then also sit with those emotions. So I know somatically what works for me is to sit with them and just allow them to come up in waves as long as they have, have to until that, that, um, intense emotion just feels like it's subsiding, subsiding, because at the end of the day, a lot of it is somatic work for us.
So even if that inner self is terrified, allow that terror to come up, allow it Allow yourself to sit with it and create a safe space for yourself where you aren't disrupted with that. Maybe you have some music playing and what helps me is just reminding myself that I'm 40
and I'm a grown ass woman and I'm able to sit with myself. I'm able to hold this now and I'm able to let it go. Because at the end of the day, I'm Let's be really honest with each other. What you've survived is crazy. That means you are a badass. That means that all the things you are doing now is kindergarten.
Okay. It's easy peasy for you. You got this. You've got that. So that's it for today. I'm sending you so much love. I'd love to hear from you. Leave a comment and, um, speak to you soon.