What Growing Up In A Home Of Criminals Has Taught Me About Being A Healer
I grew up in a home of criminals.
My mother taught me many things. Some useful…although, when I think about it. None of them are useful 🤣
One is that ripping everyone off is not only ok but required to be a team member. Ripping off friends - even better.
Keep your money at all costs, make money at all costs. Pay people as little as possible and treat them as badly as possible.
My father accidentally sank the yacht he built for a client in the middle of the Atlantic while on his way to bring the said yacht to the client. He received a big check after.
I can’t say that ethics was something I was taught at home.
My brother threatened me while I was in my 9th month of pregnancy and 3 days after the birth of my second son.
Moral ethics? Nowhere in sight. You wouldn’t even find them with a night vision device.
The good news is, that you won’t need a night vision device to follow a code of ethics as a Healer even if this is new to you. Even if the whole industry says you don’t need it.
I must warn you, most people will laugh.
It will cost you.
Clients. Friends. Mentors.
People will snicker.
The most unpopular on my list is asking my Guides if working together is in our highest interest. Oh boy, how Mentors have laughed at this!
“Are you kidding? A sale is a sale.” they would say. How far would you go for a sale?
Inside Becoming Majestic, we cover a list of Codes of Ethics that only Elite Healers use. The ones you want to work with.
I didn’t pull Becoming Majestic out of my arse. It’s called that for a reason.
Here’s a small excerpt:
Never connect directly to someone’s luminous field
Never work on someone without permission
Never offering healings you cannot do
Lower ego to o% before a healing
Ask if it’s in your highest interest to work together right now
Make sure to ask about any mental illnesses
You are never allowed to work on children unless specific permission is given
Be sensitive to cultural differences
To be trustworthy and honest
Cooperate with or refer client out to other healthcare colleagues as necessary
You must act with honesty and integrity at all times
You must always act in the best interests of your clients (this is made easier in Allyship)
Appropriate professional boundaries must always be maintained between practitioners and clients. These include physical, emotional, and socially intimate relationships.
Professional boundaries have gotten me in a pickle a lot.
I care. A lot. But the murky waters of enmeshment are not something I want to dive into.
Keeping it professional while caring a whole lot is one of the most important codes for Elite Healers.
Despite my upbringing, I’ve chosen a different path. Despite what you’ve learned, maybe you will too.
In Becoming Majestic, I share a set of Codes of Ethics designed for healers who value integrity and respect, even when it’s unpopular.
While holding true to these standards isn’t always easy and often comes with its own costs, it’s also what sets true healers apart.
These codes create a safe, honorable space for transformation—and that’s the kind of legacy I’m here to build. Because, ultimately, there’s no price on doing what’s right.
Let’s do this together, inside of Becoming Majestic. The program will on-going support and New Earth Trainings dropping all the time.